A Great Question a Cool Person asked me on Tumblr

Question:

So my friend was saying that most guys don't want to date a super attractive girl because it makes them more insecure about themselves?

Ive also heard people choose their mates in regards to their own personal ratings they would give themselves (i.e if you found yourself a 7 out of 10 you'd be finding someone around that scale also)agree?

My Answer:

I can’t speak for most guys, but it’s funny because I know some dudes that aren’t good looking have the most confidence and go for the super attractive women..
in my opinion I think this happens because these dudes feel they have nothing to loose loll
So I can’t say that’s entirely true

For picking people according to how I rate my self, I don’t rate my self,
but I know a lot of people do this

I’m not insecure being with any super attractive woman because at the end of the day we’re all human.
Looks are good (of course I would love to be with a physically beautiful woman)
..but I know once she discovers my mind and character I wouldn’t feel that she would leave me for another or that i’m not attractive enough..
My mind and Drive to grow through wisdom and my love for self and how I treat others is beyond a 10 in looks

When I choose a woman it’s about Good Character more over looks

Thirsty Ass Negro's aka Thirst Bucket Niggas

There's a lot of Dudes out here that Smash any and every woman walking (Fat, Skinny, Dirty, Low Self Esteem,Dumb Reckless Weaves, baldspot lace fronts, ....Yall get what I mean)

Thats disgusting to me cause I'm a picky dude, If a Grown Woman or Young Woman doesn't make her HYGIENE PRIORITY and/or lets her self loose physically I Can't and Won't deal with or Accept...

If its Sex just for fun and just that, A woman has to turn me on
via
-SCENT (I love a woman that smells sexy)
-SEX APPEAL (A confident woman knowning she's attractive and exudes it in her speach, walk, touch, eyes)
-HYGIENE (A Clean/Fresh Woman is Extra Sexy) Funky...head wrapped in a rusty weave, Dingy...Dusty...Smelly Women make my muscle soft

But yet there's Thirst-Bucket dudes out here that would sex these nasty birds

SUBLIMINAL LOVE???

Do You Know Someone that You Want or Believe You Need

But You Can't Have Them Because of the Situation They're In or Because They Don't Want You..............Then You Meet Someone Very Similar to This Person, Close in Look - Complexion - Laughter - Ideals and Has the Same Kind of Personality and Character......

Question Is:
Are You Interested In This Second Person Because They Are Very Similar
to The First And They're A Subliminal Substitute for That Person?????
or
Are You Intreseted Because of the Character and Personality Traits of
Both People?????