A Great Question a Cool Person asked me on Tumblr

Question:

So my friend was saying that most guys don't want to date a super attractive girl because it makes them more insecure about themselves?

Ive also heard people choose their mates in regards to their own personal ratings they would give themselves (i.e if you found yourself a 7 out of 10 you'd be finding someone around that scale also)agree?

My Answer:

I can’t speak for most guys, but it’s funny because I know some dudes that aren’t good looking have the most confidence and go for the super attractive women..
in my opinion I think this happens because these dudes feel they have nothing to loose loll
So I can’t say that’s entirely true

For picking people according to how I rate my self, I don’t rate my self,
but I know a lot of people do this

I’m not insecure being with any super attractive woman because at the end of the day we’re all human.
Looks are good (of course I would love to be with a physically beautiful woman)
..but I know once she discovers my mind and character I wouldn’t feel that she would leave me for another or that i’m not attractive enough..
My mind and Drive to grow through wisdom and my love for self and how I treat others is beyond a 10 in looks

When I choose a woman it’s about Good Character more over looks

I Love Conversation…

I Love speaking voice to voice, person to person communication..
texting/bbm/social networks are cool, but I like building with people in person or via phone at the least.

Texting/bbm/social networking 24/7 is great for people who can’t hold a conversation.

Another problem with this is people misunderstanding your response to something via text,
where as in person there is clarity in the definition of what you’re saying through eye contact,
body language, tone of voice etc..

Technology is preventing a lot of people from natural human communication growth.
And people love to settle, they’ll text all day… but when you call them they can’t hold a 5 minute verbal exchange.

Find comfort in your self and not behind material.

Let People !n

If You Have Issues/Struggles Built Up Inside
..Try Your Best To Find Someone to Share Your Problems With, Someone to Vent to
At Some Point we feel Weak/Helpless/Hopeless and Question Everything

We have things we Feel We Can’t Share With Fam or Friends that we only feel free to Share with a Stranger and Vice Versa
But Don’t let Issues Build Up Inside you
It becomes Poisonous to You and Everyone around You
Someone out there Understands your Issues and Can Help Bring Good Energy to your Path

Allow Them In